Now, I know i'm going to be controversial, but I'm going to defend the Bourdais penalty, given the onboard of Massa.
Whilst Massa could have given Bourdais room, the end of the clip from Massa's car also seems to show that Bourdais could have given Massa more room as well....
Also, the idea that cars on the main straight should "give way" to those coming out of the pits seems ludicrous. There's big flashing blue lights and everything for the cars in the pitlane, nothing like that for those barrelling down the straight at 200+mph.
Further, if the Massa incident was punished, then the Hamilton incident had to be as well - since contact between Hamilton and Raikkonen was only avoided by Raikkonen taking urgent avoiding action. However, why Kovi wasn't similarly punished, I don't know!