I am fairly sure that the teams would not have purposefully lost front downforce to compensate for the EBD changes, they would more likely be looking for ways to bring the centre of pressure rearwards through other means, either through the rear wing, or by making the downforce generated by the diffuser effectively work further back on the car.
Bearing in mind that most of the downforce from the front wing is effectively free (due to the air hitting the wheels anyway) I do not believe doing anything other than the small flap changes would be done on purpose.
As for the wings flexing less than normal, increase tests? maybe, worried about getting found out, and deciding not to push their luck too much? maybe.
I think that the Red Bull advantage has been eaten away through the concept of the car being built around the EBD and the efficiencies that allowed, and not therefore being optimal when this is removed. The exhaust positioning now seems to allow for an EBD effect if it is correct, and I think Red Bull will get there, but they are struggling with it at the moment, and I am not sure how strong they will be when they are playing catch up, as opposed to maintaining the advantage. It could be interesting!