I agree with most of what you say there
vintly, I don't agree with the bit about if you fail 'you should have the maturity to realise how lucky you are', that is very dependent on the age at the time and how well they were raised. Something like failing in a sport like F1 could easily break some people and leave them feeling like a failure, even though they're not. No one is a total failure, we all have our own strengths and weaknesses in life.If you are pushed into doing something by a certain kind of parent and you can't live up to their expectations, you're not worthless, but you can be made to feel like you are which is so wrong.