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I don't think I understand anything anymore
i think the rule of thumb with men. never asked them what they are thinking you only be disappointed. sport sex or something really weirdI quite like men actually, when they’re nice, that is. I don’t pretend to understand them. Mind I’m not really sure I understand anyone.
What does "being nice", or "I’m not really sure I understand anyone" means to you? To ask differently, what you consider being nice, or how do you know you don't understand someone?I quite like men actually, when they’re nice, that is. I don’t pretend to understand them. Mind I’m not really sure I understand anyone.
Do men really understand women any better either?i think the rule of thumb with men. never asked them what they are thinking you only be disappointed. sport sex or something really weird
That first line says it all cider_and_toastLadies, we men simply aren't that clever.
In response to the post above, if you say "I'm fine" when you don't mean it we will do one of two things A) assume you are fine or B) know that something is up but assume it cannot be that serious otherwise you would have said.
Things would work out a lot better for everyone if you just responded to the question "are you OK?" with "No because...."
We can then take immediate steps to put it right instead of having to go through multiple thought processes that always lead to "no action possible" in our minds.
Your daughter was probably fine. Bill BoddyWe had just had dinner and I was making hot drinks. I asked my daughter if she would like one she reploed "No thanks, I'm fine".
What did she mean?
Similar thing happened to my daughter, some guy at work did more or less the same thing to her and she didn't get it either, mostly because they had been working together a while and she saw him as a brother type figure, he apparently didn't see her as a sister though. Other people saw it, but she didn't.i am horrendous with subtlety. im saying 1 thing which cause a few problems with women.
apparently i got chatted up at work once this spanish lady came out of her way in the car park. to tell me what a brilliant (standard of) job i do. i just said i try my best & thank you. carried on, only til i mentioned it to work friends that they said she wasnt complimenting my job. how was i supposed to know